Sleepless night

Foxy lady said tat i shud call her last night when i couldn't sleep,

coz she can't sleep also..

haha~~

Din sleep for whole night,

n suprisingly i still dun feel sleepy although i m tired...

waiting for the uploading pics in fb...

coz i m the one who hold most of the pics,

so gonna upload it for others:)

Foxy Lady was on phone with me today,

there is one point tat i think she is correct,

we r not like other ppl who got big issue between a couple,

eg life and death,sickness,family issue...

i like the way u said:有什么大件事，是大家不能一起去面对和解决的，

一定要把对彼此的爱伤得这么彻底

Actually,we jz get tired of arguing for some small things,

hate to bear for the bad temper from one of the party,

hate to be nagged by bf/gf,

hate that u need to care for another one's feeling when u r doing smtg;

and all of these will lead to stressful n tiring life in a relationship

sometimes,i feel tired too...like reli tired...until i wan to dig a hole n burry myself inside...

but yah,i know every couple will get these issue,

and i did ask a few ppl,

do u ever feel tat single is better when u commited into a r.ship,

and yah,80% ppl will say yes,

this feeling is even stronger when they are arguing...

jz feel very sienz towards ur bf/gf....

and tired to try to talk and care with someone

I dunno how is the future going on,

but, i will leave u when there is a day i dun love u and u dun love me too,

i wun choose to break up jz becoz different thinking,different characteristic, and those arguments,

it seems like we r using the way to break up to avoid for facing the problem..

I talked to Foxy Lady,maybe sometimes bf changed becoz we did smtg in the past,

and all of these make them changed...

as a gf,we r definitely got the liability on it..

so, jz putting more effort on it,

i dun like to jz give up before putting more effort...

i guess if i do so,i will regret in the future...

For me,i got pretty bad impression on guys in the past 2 years,

The sad experience jz makes me choose to live myself,

guys are jz some.....

'part-time workers'

i sound bad,i know:P:P

At the beginning of my relationship,i dun reli put 100% in it,

maybe it's jz 20%,

I think my bf was kinda disappointed on me,

he said he can feels the defensive side from me,

that's my fault,

coz i jz can't change immediately,

we did have some arguments on it,

after that,i did change,

but when i changed,i jz found out tat u changed as well,

sometimes,i feel tat if i jz remain who am i in the past,

will everything be better??

I think a relationship can always makes ppl to grow mature,

foxy lady,we r far more to learn:)

Jz do the things that u wun be regret in the future

   Quote of the day:

Men and Women are always different in thinking,

it's even obvious when u r in a r.ship.

I think most ppl will agree with me,

sometimes,when a guy thinks tat they consider and care for the girl,

but the girl jz dun get it,

they feel irritated and think that the girl is not understanding enuf;

and well,on the girl's position,

girls always think the things in the other way round which is different with the guy's view,

and so yah,argument~da lang~ 

How?!Try to understand and put ur position in his or her way

That's the way how we get along with ppl and the way to grow mature:)



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